by David Krueger MD 1.Don’t use credit cards. In numerous studies, individuals spend significantly more—on average 23%--when using credit cards vs. paying cash. Credit cards make money an abstraction, as well as relegating payment to a future time. The immediacy of real money makes it a real consideration.
2.Estimate expenses in detail; pay in cash. Studies at the Robert H. Smith School of Business at the University of Maryland found that people spend less when they have to estimate expenses in detail, as well as when paying cash then when using credit.
3.Pause between the pick and the purchase. Wants are the language of the initial intoxicating exposure to dopamine. Dopamine releases with anticipation, making action feel compelling. Neuroscientists at Emory University found that this delay disrupted dopamine release. This is the chemical that, once a purchase is made, diminishes to result in “buyer’s remorse.” Create a contemplative pause – a space of time between choosing something and paying for it at check-out. Time cures wants.
4.Simplify your symbolism. Designer brands are marketed to symbolically represent quality, desirability, and the experience of having arrived. The symbolism of specialness costs more. The qualities that we attribute to brands create a relationship with the brand that results in both desire and the commitment to pay more.
5.Leave emotions at home. Emotions highjack the logical brain, and along with it, reasonable decisions. Under stress, we may relieve that stress by buying, by hoarding, or by purchasing out of other emotional needs such as insecurity or a desire to win approval.
6.Don’t be special. Special offers or other indications that you are in a select group — an inner circle of consideration— will make you buy more than you need. Special, exclusive, unique offers induce a desire to respond with gratitude and with purchase. Be suspicious of special offers.
7.Shop alone. The social contagion of shopping with friends induces a relaxation of usual constraints, as well as the desire to impress friends with purchase.
8.Know what “good enough” is. Rather than an impossible quest for perfection, or for the unattainable endpoint of “more”, define specifically what good enough is. Having an endpoint lets you know when you arrive, when you can feel satisfaction.
9.Keep your eye on the ball… Focus on the immediate, the specific and its importance.
10.…And your head in the game. Be aware of the big picture—the scope of importance.
A study by the Joseph Rowntree Foundation found that wealthy Londoners do not feel rich because they do not mix with less affluent people. When you look at the global neighborhood, that half of humanity lives on less than $3 a day, it puts things in perspective. In the United States about 1% of the people own 96% of the wealth. Keep the big picture in mind. “Good enough” is the antithesis of “more.”
11.Consider the opportunity cost of your purchase. Calculate what the money would be worth in five years. In ten years.
12.Consider the absolute value rather than the anchor price. Evaluate an item you purchase on the basis of the item itself, rather than the stated initial price. Our brains are wired to log in an initial anchor price, then to judge everything subsequently in reference to that anchor price.
13.Consider the actual product and what you will do with it if purchased. Disregard the brand, the esteem of ownership, and how you will be perceived as its owner. Marketing produces desires we didn’t know we had.
14.Use “free” as a cue to spend more slowly. Evaluate carefully. “Free” is designed to induce action and minimize consideration.
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Thinking of money in a different context completely shifts my self-defeating habits into something more productive. Your list of 14 is perfect for that! Thanks for the insights and best of luck with your book release in August!
These 14 steps are fantastic and I will share them with all my MomEmpowerment moms to get a hold on spending! Spending for moms has so many levels: searching for comfort, acknowledgement, rewards and even proof of an identity before becoming a mom. I would like to know more about Step 5 - Leave your empotions at home. I think that is a tough one and would like to hear more about this step! Good luck for your book and thanks for all your help!
I took one of David's courses a couple of years ago and he is such an incredible teacher. Thank you again David for presenting such down- to- earth, well-researched and valuable information. You are one of the true voices out there that are genuinely interested in promoting our global health and well-being...providing us with fresh, unique material that advances our capacity to make wise & informed choices. Thank you for choosing to share this knowledge in an authentic heart-felt way that does NOT rely on exploiting our neuro-chemisty in the process!! Wishing you much continued success in your work...
Every time I spend money, I am reminded of the best lesson I ever got about spending:
"If you want to save money, Don't Go Shopping!"
Thanks for 14 more ideas to help. I can use them to stop 'investing' in my business
Very good list.
What I have found usefull with my employees, spouse and myself are these questions:
a) If vendor haven't come to me, wuould I purchase?
b) Think twice: Do I REALLY NEED or REALLY WANT the item I am about to buy?
c) When something is offered as an "opportunity", ask: Is it really an opportunity to take money OUT OF MY POCKET in exchange of the item?
ALL THINGS WORK TOGETHER FOR GOOD. Your article came at the right time for me in this season. Thank you for educating me and confirming how I continually neglect by spending unnecessarily.I really am grateful for your insightfulness and sincerity in helping the general public overcome an unknown habit. I am definately wishing you continually success in educating us on a whole. Thank you so much!!!!